Utförlig presentation på engelska av andra delkursen Helping Children Grow Up (Att hjälpa barn växa och mogna ) i Power to Parent-serien Dr Gordon Neufelds distance course Power to Parent, part II, Helping Children Grow UpCourse outline for part II Helping Children Grow Up video seriesSession 1: Parents and the Miracle of Maturation • the growth analogy introduced • the role of relationship in learning and maturation • immaturity a primary cause of problems • growth is rooted in attachment • growth emanates from a place of rest • the three maturing processes introduced • maturation & the plant analogy • maturation and the engine analogy Session 2: How to Give Children the REST they Need to Grow • how to take charge of the proximity work • how to provide more than is being pursued • how to keep the connection safe and secure • how to fulfill a child’s attachment hunger • how to convey trust in a child’s becoming • two core reasons for chronic restlessness Session 3: The keys to Independence and Responsibility • introducing the emergent process and its fruit • the three tell-tale signs of the emergent life-force at work • five ways in which children need to venture forth • attachment and emergence • why the nonemergent have trouble learning and behaving Session 4: How to help children become their own persons • how to draw out emergent activity • how to give the ROOM a child needs • how to nurture emergence by placing in charge • how to get a child into the driver’s seat of life • how to protect budding emergence and individuality • how to deal with the nonemergent child Session 5: Keys to Resilience, Resourcefulness & Recovery • introducing the adaptive process and its fruit • why children need to find their tears • why some children lose their tears • how some children emerge through attachment loss & lack • why the tearless have problems learning and behaving Session 6: How to help children accept limits and adapt to circumstances • how to be both an agent of futility and an angel of comfort • how to do the three-step dance of adaptation • how to keep from spoiling one’s child • how to know when a child needs to be danced to the turning point • how to deal with the tearless child Session 7: Keys to Emotional and Social Maturity • introducing the integrative process and its fruit • the miracle of mixed feelings • the neuroscience of maturation • the stages of integrative development • how Nature builds character & fosters morality • why some children lack mixed feelings • the magic of addition • how to become a well-tempered parent Session 8: How to help Children find their Self-control and Social Sensitivity • how to get a good mix • how to set the stage for mixed feelings • how to use ‘tempering’ as a discipline technique • how to know when your child suffers from the ‘preschooler syndrome’ • how to deal with the impulsive and immature child |